Mit der Rute den Eigensinn vertreiben
Erziehungsratgeber aus dem 18. und 19. Jahrhundert kannten eigentlich nur zwei Mittel zur wirksamen Erziehung von Kindern und Jugendlichen: Zwang und Schläge. Lange bevor das Thema von Psychologen besetzt und problematisiert wurde, schrieben erfahrene Pädagogen dicke Bücher über Erziehung aus der Praxis und für die Praxis.
Add a commentKurzer Prozess: Kindheit in den 60er Jahren
Im Zeitalter vor der Pille kamen Kinder auf die Welt, weil die Natur es eben so gewollt hatte. Manche wurden als Geschenk Gottes angesehen. Andere wurden eben geboren, weil zwei Menschen Sex gehabt hatten. Im Mittelpunkt standen sie nie. Sie mussten sich einfügen, hatten zu spuren oder bekamen Prügel.
Add a commentGeneration Z: Die Generation, die nie erzogen wurde
Eine Generation, die nie gefordert wurde, kommt jetzt in die Arbeitswelt. Sie wurden von hysterischen Müttern zur Schule gefahren, damit sie auch wirklich sicher ankommen. Sie haben akademische Titel, sind aber kaum in der Lage, zwei fehlerfreie Sätze zu schreiben. Sie können weniger als jede Generation vor ihnen, haben aber die höchsten Ansprüche.
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Proper parenting is always authoritarian
According to the standards of modern education, a cane stands for brute force and therefore has no place in the classroom. According to Western psychology, a child suffers lifelong trauma from being slapped, spanked or even flogged. Our great-grandparents must therefore have caused tremendous psychological damage. Oddly enough, you don't feel any of that.
Add a commentProper child-raising requires firm rules
The world has probably never changed as quickly and drastically as it has in the last two generations. However, most developments have been limited to the so-called Western world. In South America, Africa and all of Asia, on the other hand, people still live by the same rules that their grandfathers knew. This also applies to the education of the next generation.
Add a commentA family as it should be
He is a photographer and lives with his wife and three children far away from the large metropolitan areas in a tranquil German region called Sauerland. The outside world perceives a completely normal family, which does not particularly attract attention. The woman is pretty and always greets in a friendly manner when a neighbor meets her in the supermarket. The children don't seem to cause any problems and are always polite and courteous. Everything seems to harmonize perfectly. However, no one knows the reason behind it all.
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The cashier at Aldi really existed just as much as the slim girl in the gym and the two friends on the beach. But Wolfram Steffen is not only a good observer. He also writes down the rest of the story until it reaches its painful end.
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"Mein Großvater fackelte nicht lange. Er schlug einfach so lange zu, bis er der Meinung war, dass ich meine Lektion gelernt hatte. Zu seiner Zeit war das die einzige Art, ein Mädchen zu erziehen."
Brenda
Male dominance between spanking and BDSM
Spanking is the secret world of sexual arousal between dominance and submission. Spanking is part of the BDSM scene and is still completely different. In earlier generations, domestic discipline and spanking was an everyday occurrence. Back then, strict mothers and zealous governesses took care of raising the brood. Fathers, teachers and husbands, on the other hand, had a secret desire to ensure discipline and order, especially among women. It was about bringing forth female humility and eradicating any form of rebelliousness. It was about punishment, chastisement and correction. And canes, willow rods, riding crops, leather straps or whips were used to cause welts on female buttocks and to form female thoughts. This is still daily practice in large parts of the world. Elsewhere, there is a BDSM or spanking scene where people act out what is obviously an inherent part of our disposition.
The spanking world of male dominance.
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